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Paul expects
older women to be able to teach: “They can train the younger women to love
their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at
home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands” (vv. 4-5). Paul does
not tell Titus to teach the young women directly, but he asks the older
women to lead them.
Paul lists a
number of roles that women had in first-century society and then explains
why Christian women should perform them: “so that no one will malign the
word of God.” Christianity has several beliefs and practices that
unbelievers do not like, and Christians cannot do everything that
unbelievers want. But in many customs, Christians can conform, and this is
what Paul wants.
If people
are going to criticize, let it be for essential matters, not for unnecessary
differences. If we break social customs, people will be more skeptical about
everything we say, so we want to keep our differences to a minimum. Paul is
concerned about how our behavior might affect the gospel.
“Similarly,
encourage the young men to be self-controlled. In everything set them an
example by doing what is good” (vv. 6-7). Titus will teach not just by
words, but also in what he does. Even his style of teaching is important:
“In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that
cannot be condemned.” Why? Because our reputation as bearers of the gospel
is important: “So that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have
nothing bad to say about us.” People will disagree with our beliefs, but we
do not want to give any extra offense.
Paul then
comments on one more social group: “Teach slaves to be subject to their
masters in everything, to try to please them, not to talk back to them, and
not to steal from them, but to show that they can be fully trusted, so that
in every way they will make the teaching about God our Savior attractive”
(vv. 9-10).
Paul is
advising believers to perform their social roles well—he is not necessarily
saying that those social roles are good. But we can with some modification
apply what Paul says to employment situations today. Believers should
perform their jobs well, being cooperative, trustworthy, and respectful to
everyone.
Why? To make
the gospel attractive, so that people will be more likely to listen to what
we say about Jesus. The way we live, the way we work, the way we treat our
families and neighbors, all make a difference in how receptive people will
be to the message we share.
Grace-based behavior
Paul then
gives a theological reason for teaching people to be well-behaved: “For the
grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men” (v. 11). Or the
Greek could also be translated, “The grace of God has appeared, bringing
salvation to all” (NRSV). Not everyone has seen it yet, but salvation is
available to everyone on the basis of grace.
And what
does this grace do? “It teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly
passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this
present age” (v. 12). Grace—if we understand it correctly— teaches us to
reject sin and to do good. As children of God, we want to be like the Son of
God, but we cannot do this on our own strength. It is only by God’s grace
that we are enabled to do what he wants.
This is a
good way to live “in this present age,” but the rewards are not necessarily
seen in this age. Therefore, “we wait for the blessed hope—the glorious
appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ” (v. 13). Here, Jesus is
clearly called God, and Paul says that we await his return.
What did
Jesus do? He “gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to
purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good”
(v. 14). He redeemed us from sin. But Christ has a purpose for us beyond
that: He wants to purify us, to eliminate the sin, and to create in us a
desire for good behavior.
So Paul
summarizes his point: “These, then, are the things you should teach.
Encourage and rebuke with all authority. Do not let anyone despise you” (v.
15). Jesus wants people who are eager to do good, so Titus, as a messenger
of Christ, should encourage good behavior and speak out against bad
behavior. He should not do anything that would cause people to despise him,
because they would then despise the Savior he represented.
As Titus
reads this letter to his congregation, Paul is also speaking to them: “Titus
is going to have to correct you on some of your behavior. But he is simply
doing what I would have done, and doing what grace tells you, if you are
willing to hear what it says.” In the same way today, we should not despise
those who exhort us to resist sin and do good.
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Questions
for discussion
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What
virtues are most needed in our culture? (v. 2)
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What
behaviors today, although not sins, might cause people to despise the
gospel? (v. 5)
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Paul said
that slaves should submit (v. 9). Was it therefore wrong for Christians to
try to abolish slavery in the 19th century?
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Grace
means that we are not penalized for sin; how then does it teach us to
avoid sin? (v. 12)
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